I am THAT GIRL that you see stopped at red lights, jamming out to the radio like a crazy person, singing to you.
Anonymous asked:
i would love to know, if you're asking someone how they are why 'im tired' is not okay. you are asking how they are. Tired is how they are. If you only want to hear an 'i'm fine, thanks' you really dont care how they are. a simple hi would suffice on your part.
Hm… valid. You are correct. My logic is this: yes, I’m asking how you are because I actually do care how you are. But, when you respond each time with, “I’m tired, you?” it gets irritating. I’m just not generally a fan of complaints. Every once in a while, I get it, it’s fine. It gets annoying when that’s all I hear, mostly because, as I said, we’re all tired. I’m tired frequently, but I never complain about it because I understand that I’m not special because of it.
But, perhaps I shouldn’t open up the question if I’m not willing to be receptive to the response.
Thanks for the question, grey-face.
